# James' Rules and Guidelines !
Rules and guidelines page for James' blogs
Rules
Note: I have Autism and tend to over explain things to make sure I'm understood, so if something seems like really long & complicated i promise it isn't. this is just how i communicate
James', he/him, 24, transgender, queer man.
One.
if you knowingly and willingly participate in
homophobia,
transphobia,
racism,
sexism,
antisemtism,
xenophobia,
islamiophobia,
or zionismIf you
- are a Trump Supporter,
- are a JKR apologist,
- are a Niel Gaiman defender*,
- only want to start occ drama,
- trying to force interactions on me with characters on my blacklist or greylist
- Whitewash any character (YES, WANDA, PIETRO, AND DICK COUNT)
- don't use jewish fcs for jewish characters (I think faceless is fine if you absolutely can't find any)you are not welcome in any of my spaces, and I will not interact with you, I will block you.* I understand writing comic characters he made that have been written by many different writers after him, and enjoying those characters . just please don't be defending himAlso if you are under 18, a personal blog, or trying to write against me with a non-comic character without discussing it with me first.
I will not interact.(Ocs are fine as long as they are comic based & comic character mixed with other media like the MCU or animated series are fine too! just No strictly non-comic muses without discussing with me first)
Two.
Do not force me into occ drama, I don't care. If I'm interacting with someone who is a horrible person please dm about it.If I block you and you want an explanation you are welcome to message me on another blog to ask. but I do not have to reply. I do not want to see certain people, sometimes I just don't vibe, or I simply believe that I would be upset seeing your blog especially if my triggers are on it. do not reach out more than once at the end of the day i just want to enjoy my hobby and be left alone,
Three.
I will NOT interact with anyone who retcons out women or people of colour of their characters backstories, romantic relationships, for the exclusive favour of men especially white men.If you just write women out of your male characters backstories, mischaracterise them (especially claim they are abusive when they are not), kill them, or dismiss / devalue them. I will not interactYou can absolutely have your own sexuality headcanons, and dislike canon ships, especially if they are problematic in canon, even if they aren't. No one is forcing you to write them. Just don't devalue women in favour of menI am a queer man, I love gay ships. But I am tired of seeing female characters being treated poorly for the sake of gay shipping.
Four.
I take time to reply sometimes. I work, I have Autism, ADHD, and probably other things. All to say; Memory is bad, words are hard.
I don't mind a reminder after a week of not replying but pushing, badgering and over all demanding a reply makes me lose muse so much faster and will make me very likely to drop the interaction.
Five.
I don't mind shipping, if it happens in a thread naturally that's fine! But I would like to at least have a conversation at some point about plots.
I will very very rarely do whole blog exclusive ships I like being able to explore all sorts of ships and writing partners!
Triggers and Character Blacklist !
Triggers
Please trigger tag these if you don't already!- Cannibalism
- Harry Potter
- Hazbin Hotel / Helluva Boss
- Incest
- Rape
- Stucky,
i have a lot to say about stucky so I'll put it here, but comic (or comic mixed with other sources) stucky upsets me, and unless you have a tag for it or are willing to make a tag for it. i will not follow you and may block you.
(idc abt the ship in an mcu-only context, do what you want, i don't typically follow mcu-only blogs anyway)
- Suicide
- Unhygienic deceptions of food / shitty food porn. (images only)
basically, food on the ground, food that has dirt in it. / things like NyQuil chicken or Gatorade Rice
- Vampiric hunger / bloodlust targeted to people under 18
mostly against my OWN muses
Grey Listed Characters.
Please talk to me BEFORE interacting with me as these muses
Marvel
- Carnage / Cletus Kassidy
- Frank Castle
Black Listed Characters.
Do not interact with me as any of the following characters:Marvel
- Mister Sinister
- Miss Sinister
- Ruth Bat-Seraph
- Sylvie Luston / Enchantress
Dc
- Slade Wilson / DeathstrokeGeneral
Nazis (yes, hydra counts)
- (non willing like RJ Boyle is fine)
Pedophiles
Rapistsand ofc, if your character had a badly written run (cough TALIA cough) where they were made to be ones of these things and it is NOT a reflection of their character at large (+ and they are not on my blacklist or greylist ) then feel free to interact!
currently tagging ( as both "tw [trigger]" & "[trigger] cw"):
THIS does not mean these come up often or will come up I just like having a list so i can check if they do come up and it helps me to have a list to look to.
Ajin - My Trigger list for the series This is a list for the entire series not just what I will write, but I will tag TW Ajin if you want to block that to not see any threads containing mentions of those topics. I will tag things in addition for this but just to be safe if I miss anything.blood
brain injuries
child abuse
child death
child experimentation
child neglect
decapitation
head trauma
NSFW
pregnancy
self harm
sexual assault
starvation / food neglect
suicide
feel free to dm me if i forgot yours!
Stucky
mostly comic / mixed media based, (i do not care about the mcu ship) I don't care what reason, retcon, headcanon, what writer said what about the ship, how many comics you have read, or what you have read. I have read too many old comics of them where they were show as parent-child dynamic, and I have always viewed them in the comics as a familiar/parental relationship and i'd like that to be respected. if you try and "reason" with me I will block you.
incest is one of my triggers, i am a survivor, and this has always given me the same type of trigger response. PLEASE just be respectful and don't fight me on this. I just do not want to see it.
additionally, any use of Danielle Silverstone's reasons why stucky is canon will be immediately blocked. they literally used seduction of the innocence, a book that CLAIMS batman and robin are homosexual partners, and say that steve and bucky were based on batman and robin which means the intentions for bucky and steve were always homoerotic. and that sidekick/hero relationships have always been homoerotic.
Do not talk to me about how mcu bucky is Arnie Roth, Arnie Roth a is canonical Gay & Jewish character who deserves WAY more respect than just being "evidence" for your ship.
Blog list!
BILLY KAPLAN
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BUCKY BARNES
@karpovsghost
DYLAN BRICK
@brockjr
GUY GARDNER
@bestlantern
GLADION (Pokemon)
@aethertype
MINHKHOA KHAN
@hauntsbats
MUTLI MUSE
@minimultimuse
OLEANA (Pokemon)
@devoutofthorns)
TORO RAYMOND
@forgottentorch